Book Review: Become an Alpha Male

Thursday, October 22nd, 20099 Commented
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Alpha-Slide-Pic-RATEDIf you have had a couple of girlfriends in the past, but haven’t yet learned what to do in order to get the quality of women that you truly desire, then this may be the book you’ve been searching for.

The author is not an arrogant, cocky dude. John is 39, and his style of writing shows that he has plenty of life-experience. He was not an Alpha Male when he was younger, and instead became one later on in his life. I thought that was inspiring because it shows that his method can be learned by someone who was not an alpha male for most of their life. When I was reading this book for the first time, that was highly motivational for me. Its great to see that attracting women is a skill that you can develop rather than a natural born ability.

John Alexander points out early on in his book that most guides written for men about how to attract favorable attention from women focus largely on WHAT to do to please the woman. His approach, he says, is to concentrate instead on how to BECOME the man that women respond to. This is something that I advocate highly. When you focus on yourself you see huge benefits in other areas of your life totally unrelated to dating. This type of approach makes you a more well-rounded person. This also allows you to grow in multiple areas of your life.

When you’re doing things to attract the girl you are shooting yourself in the foot. Some shady tactics may work temporarily, but this approach seldom lasts on a long term scale. That is why I think this book is so awesome. It focuses on working on yourself. Making yourself the attractive alpha male.

Become the alpha male, says John, and you will ALWAYS BE the alpha male, no matter how things turn out in any one relationship. You will then always be able to simply BE YOURSELF, and “lots of quality dates” without any difficulty whatsoever. I know this to be true from personal experience. The alpha males in my circle of friends attract girls easily and frequently. They subconsciously use the same concepts that John teaches in the book. They learned to use these principles while they were growing up from family, and life experiences. In Become an Alpha Male John Alexander re-states all the most important lessons that I’ve learned from my alpha male friends over the years.

Although the cover of the book looks like many of the other dating guides out there (with the typical silhouettes of seductive-looking girls), I was pleasantly surprised at the great content inside. The best way for me to describe it would be to say it was a well-written logical description of 3 key parts of dating:

banner120x600-1Approaching, your behavior when you’re around women, and finally, bringing them into your life. Oh, and did I mention the sex that you will experience as a result of this? I definitely should because this book explicitly sets out sex as the ultimate goal behind all of the great concepts that John teaches. In fact, he has a perfect way to describe how each method taught leads to sex.

His concepts could be best described in 2 parts:

  • Becoming a guy that feels good about himself naturally. The type of person that doesn’t seek validation from others. The book explains clearly what you need to do to become this guy. This is the type of person that is irresistible to women. I have personally seen that time and time again while approaching women.
  • Making sure that the woman who you’re pursuing would never be perceived as a “slut” for having sex with you. This is key, and John emphasizes it a lot. Women will do whatever is possible in order to avoid looking promiscuous.

There are tons of other principles and concepts that are explained in the book. All of them are meant to guide you toward becoming the Alpha Male that lives in a total abundance of women.

I’d like to say that in order to fully get the best out of this product, you should make sure to take the time to practice and really learn the principles that are discussed in this book. In my opinion the best way to learn is by doing. So make sure to apply the concepts in your daily life right after you read about them. If you do that, this book could bring you the results that you want.

Another great thing is that many of the principles that are directly applicable to attracting women will have improvements on other areas of your life. I’ve used the info within the book to take a leadership role at my current job, as well as become an assistant coach on a wrestling team. The concepts taught in this book also applied to interactions with men. When you’re an alpha male, men will typically give you a leadership role.

Something that I really enjoyed was how absorbed I became in the reading. Unlike many other dating products that I’ve read this one kept me engaged throughout. In fact, I’m sure that it will be easy for you to read through this book cover to cover.

Just in case, an audio version of the book is available for customers of the ebook (a link to a discounted audio file version is found near the end of the book). This is great because it allows you to repeatedly expose yourself to these concepts to make sure they really become internalized for you. Also, the author give his email, and a bunch of free online consultations if you have any follow up questions. I thought that was a nice touch, and it emphasizes the fact that John really wants to help guys get better at dating.

“How To Become An Alpha Male” gets my top recommendation. Grab this one – you won’t regret it!

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